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Hey Y’all!
How many of you consider yourself to be stylish at this present stage in your life but when it comes to your past fashion sense, you cringe?
Yup, that’s how I feel. But I have decided to put myself out there and let you see photos that I would otherwise burn if it weren’t so funny and humbling all at the same time.
Fashion is ever changing and what we find to be fashionable right now may not be so fashionable in the future. Let’s take a look back at some of my past looks and see if I was a total fashion disaster. In full disclosure, I still own and wear some of these clothing items. Can you guess which ones?
Alright, you ready? Let’s go!
Fashion is a language that everyone speaks and the way we dress says a lot about us. Fashion helps us express ourselves without us having to utter a single word. It can tell us who is daring, who is shy, who is creative, who loves everything color and those who merely prefers neutrals and shades.
No matter which era we were born in, our personal styles will always be influenced in some way by either pop culture, our genealogical backgrounds, politics, faith and to include our most recent years; social media, etc. When you look back at generations from long ago, whether it be your grandparents generation or even just your parents, you will see that the way we dress right now is vastly different from then, and that some styles from back then may have gone but since made a comeback.
Now that we have looked through my style diary together, I hope you don’t judge my fashion sense too harshly. Do you think you know what my personal style is like currently? Have I really evolved or do I still make some questionable style choices?
As usual, thanks for taking the time to check in with me.
Xoxo,
CandyQane 💕
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Or that a disease will break out and leave me stranded far from dry land; which could also lead to my untimely death? Maybe what also gets me is the possibility that I could be enjoying one of the countries I’ve stopped on so much, that the time slips away from me, causing my ship to leave me, and knowing that my mother would in due time get her hands on me for being stupid enough not to be a responsible adult and that would also lead to my life being cut short. Hold up, this has taken an ugly turn. *smooths out my hair and slaps myself in the face, while straightening my shirt* My apologies. Cruises seem like so much fun. There are also people who only go on cruises so really, how bad could they be? Maybe one day… “The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.” Marcel Proust Tweet Ever since I was a child, travel was my favourite past time. I was a 1 year old the first time my mom took me on a plane and I have been a frequent traveler since. I am a firm believer that we shouldn’t only experience life from a book or through a television screen. Travel helps us to leave some of our ignorance behind by allowing us to see and understand things we wouldn’t have if we hadn’t lived it. If you can’t afford to fly off somewhere, there are different types of trips you can take that do not require a passport. Get into it. Not all of us enjoy or can afford the same things but there is so much life to be lived, lessons to learn and fun to be had. Hopefully my list helps you to see that. As usual, thanks for taking the time to check in with me. Xoxo, CandyQane 💕
How to Survive Quarantine
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So as concerts, sporting events, graduations, award shows, churches and more get cancelled, planes become grounded and airports await travel bans to be lifted, borders between countries are closed via air and sea, schools, libraries, museums, cinemas, theaters, restaurants, court houses and basically every single job closes their doors, what is left for us to do? Below I have listed my top 10 things that can help us pass the time. 1. Read a Book Now I don’t know about you, but this is the perfect time to turn off the news and distract yourself- if even for an hour or two each day, and immerse yourself in a good book. I remember a time when reading was my life. I was basically Belle from The Beauty and the Beast. I would envision myself as a character in whatever book I was reading and it would help me escape my actual life. Sometimes, depending on which book I am reading, I still find myself in situations such as this. Do you have any books that you’ve put to the side but haven’t read yet? Well now is as good a time as any to pick it back up. 2. Take a Nap Raise your hand if sleep feels like a luxury. Every time you lay your head to rest, you are prevented from sleeping because your mind is racing from one thing to the next and you find it difficult to close all the tabs in your brain. Or maybe you can only get so much sleep because you are a parent or you simply are just juggling too many things in your life. Well insert sleep here because this is the time to catch up on some z’s. This will cause you to reset and feel more refreshed for the day we all get sprung free from our isolation camps aka our homes. 3. Have a Watch Party! Have you heard that Netflix has launched a program called “Netflix Party?” Well, it can have you watching the same show at your varied places of abode at the same time while communicating via chat. It also “synchronizes video playback” too. If for some reason this isn’t a viable option for you, or you want to watch something from a different platform, try the next best thing which is to load your program on your tv or computer, wait for the person(s) you plan to watch it with to do the same, get on Skype or FaceTime, hit play at the same time and have fun with your friends while effectively practicing social distancing! 4. Solo Dance Party via GIPHY Who says you need people to have a good party? Make a playlist, crank the music up, and let loose all by yourself. Dance it out. Dance out all the worry, fear, thoughts of doom and gloom, and just have fun. And you wanna know the best part about this? Even if you can’t dance, no one is watching, you are in a judgment free zone. Go wild! 5. Do a Puzzle or Color! Puzzles are a great way to bond with those in your household and kill the time while actually having fun. If you are stuck at home riding out this quarantine with siblings, nieces/nephews, children, parents or your significant other- whomever it may be, this is a good way to keep your brain in check. And yes, if you do not have a puzzle at home, there’s an app for that. If isolation has begun to cause you to experience some stress or anxiety, coloring books are a proven way to help with that. It helps you to relax, and de-stress. Who knew this wasn’t only meant for kids? I sure didn’t. Not until a couple years ago. So if you think this may be beneficial for you, you can either purchase these books in a store or online via places like amazon or even try the modern way as mentioned above- an app. To find the apps shown above, simply search your app store (Android/iPhone) for “Jigsaw Puzzles- Puzzle Game” and “Pigment Adult Colouring Book.” 6. Spring Cleaning Despite the fact that this year is proving to be difficult to plan for, we can continue to do things that will bring some normalcy back to our lives. For those of us living in colder countries, we can begin our spring cleaning. We can get our gardens ready, swap out our thicker curtains and bed spreads for lighter ones, pack away our winter clothing and pull out our spring/summer wear into the forefront of our closet, etc. Now I know spring has just arrived less than a week ago, and for us Canadians this doesn’t mean that we will be getting spring weather anytime soon– someone call for snow?– but since we are under self isolation, we should have copious amounts of time to get a head start on these things. Also, if you were thinking of re-decorating a room in your house, why not do it now while you have the time? 7. Get Fresh Air https://www.candyqanedreams.ca/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/IMG_8221.m4v Let’s not get it twisted. Just because we are forced into isolation does not mean that we cannot go outside the confines of our walls. Go for a walk down your block, sit on your balcony if you have one or sit in your back yard and get some vitamin D and fresh air into your lungs. It is important to keep ourselves as healthy as humanly possible right now. 8. Listen to a Podcast Now, I know the photo above seems to have absolutely nothing to with podcasts but I promise, I will tie it all together. I’m just a bit hungry at the moment so this photo seems perfect haha. But seriously, podcasts are amazing. It’s like listening to the radio, but without ads and with multiple different personalities and topics based on the person(s) you have chosen to listen to and what you like. This could range anywhere from business, exercise, book clubs, religion, pop culture and the list goes on and on. So how about multitasking and listening to it while cooking (see I told you I would tie it in), doing laundry or other household chores. In addition to that, why not take the time to stock up your refrigerator with multiple home cooked meals. Instead of chips, your choice of snack could be fried dumplings or a beef sandwich. The best part about this is that the time you spent cooking will fly by because of the podcast you’re listening to and it will feel like you have people in your home with you. 9. Prioritize Self Care Feeling overwhelmed? Uncertainty about the future making you nervous? Not to worry. We live in a generation where there is an app for everything. Sometimes, these apps help us to become more centered and become more in tune with ourselves. The calm app is amazing for this. However, you will find that because it is basically the best app out there when it comes to relaxation, it is pricey. Well, they have currently released a free resource page so any and everyone can benefit from their content which was curated to support our “mental and emotional wellness through this time.” They have recordings for categories such as “soothing meditations, sleep meditations, sleep stories, calming music, calm body, calm masterclass, calm kids, mindfulness resources, practices to find ease.” Go check it out, the website is linked above. 10. Group Chat via GIPHY My family, friends and I have been utilizing this step a lot during our quarantine. It’s been helping to bridge the gap and to minimize feelings of loneliness, which is incredible since none of us needed to catch flights in order to see and talk to each other at the same time. There are many platforms that can be used to accomplish this task; FaceTime, Skype, Instagram group video, Whatsapp video, etc. If you are not an introvert like I am, this entire situation may be exceptionally tough for you. Just hang in there, think about the many reasons we are all quarantined. Pray for those individuals and their families who have been personally and tragically affected by this. If you have a job that allows you to work from home, or if you have a job that had to close during this period but you are fortunate enough to still get paid each day; that is a blessing. This world is causing us to slow down right now. God is telling us to take a break and appreciate the smaller things in life because we could easily be here today and gone tomorrow. Staying home is not a prison sentence. Get to know yourself, learn to enjoy your own company and use the resources you have available at your fingertips to keep yourself sane. Be sure to drink your fluids, always wash your hands with soap as many times as needed, sanitize your phones, doorknobs, groceries, tables, etc and practice social distancing. If not for yourself, be responsible for others. As usual, thanks for taking the time to check in with me. Xoxo, CandyQane 💕
3 Comments
Gesselle
Ah, I had some good laughs indeed and some I thought you were just being too harsh on yourself.
I do absolutely love your current sense of style, girrrl 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I just discovered your blog .
Peta-Gaye
Lolol! Oh how your sense of style has changed.
Eloise
Not bad at all I could see myself wearing some of those fashionable styles .